Temptations...

Okay previously it was all about you and your assumptions let us now discuss about people and their outlook towards us. But still we tend to think  what is that the other person has and i do not...that everyone is mesmerized by them and always flocks towards them? It s not that they have something and  you don't have it. It's more about how well you  express the stuff inside you and how comfortable you let the other person feel.

    But i must warn you here, keep a track of how far you are letting a person to go and that he/she must not dominate or dictate you and your opinions later. if you realize that you have let a person go too far.. then simply show them their right place might be a difficult for you and the other person.... if all goes well you both will be closer that before if not remind yourself you deserve more understanding people.

     Let me tell you giving importance to people and making them realize that they are important will not in turn make you important to them .Importance is always earned with qualities like tactfulness,charm and being optimistic.it also depends on your decision whether you want to be important or not. Remember that except for a few people the rest are only with you and come along with you through all your joys and sorrows as long as you hold the charm or prove yourself worthy of their support and company. 

qualities of a good listener

SO, hi people.... we meet once again.....,
Well i hope you've all met lotssss of new people and are wondering how to decide whether to stick to them or not..... anyways.. i got a brand new idea to solve this problem. The magic is just that your should  not take be partial or influenced or hurting.For example in a case like You have just met a new friend and you find  he/she is very prejudicing almost every time and every situation.You can just listen to his/her views and still form your own proper decision about everything  .Whatever maybe the case the person or the reason behind your decision must be your mind and you mind ONLY.Since everybody has a positive and also a negative side we must learn to observe the good from the others and try to become best. It does not mean the same in a group because when you work in a group you must always ensure that the views and thoughts of all the members are taken care of sufficiently if not the group may not be able to produce effective work.
Then again you must be patient enough to allow the other person to explain themselves properly . This not only helps the other person to express themselves properly  but also gives them a sign to come up with a more proper approach.....
well that's for now meet you soon again..

Importance of getting to know others...

 The most important thing about knowing things about others and also about the consequences they face is that ...we will get to know about our own weakness and strengths...when we start analyzing a situation or a person we automatically start thinking about what we would have done in the same situation about the same problem...some of us take things in a positive attitude and some of us in negative attitude.. which ever is the case we start forming decision about the respective thing.But the important point is we must not form a wrong opinion about anything.....and we must also make sure that whatever decision we make is correct..

 So, next time when you are trying to analyse anyone or anything just check if you are doing the right thing.....
Meet you all soon again and net time i'll tell you about how to make sure that your decisions are correct or not... until then keep posting....
and get to know lots of people/.....